Parents not receiving child support unite against deadbeat parents.

Daughter of a Deadbeat Dad

I am a daughter of a deadbeat dad. To tell a little about my story my parents got a divorce when I was 3 years old. We then moved, my dad stayed in contact for a few years off and on. He got a new wife. After that he lost all contact with us I was then 7 years old. He stopped paying childsupport then. No my mom didn't tell me this when I was younger I figured these things out as I got older. I saw him a couple of times after that but he was never there he had his step daughter watch me and my sisters when we stayed with him. Shortly after that he changed his number once again and moved to another state. He ran and keept running. When I was 14 or so was the last time I saw him and once again he wasnt there. Him and his friend were going to go out on a date me and my sisters being the teenagers we were were being sneaky and found out that he told them he didnt have kids so we wrecked that date. I am now about to be 19 years old and have recently found out that he is back in Alabama. Which is my home state. Yes this is messing alot but I'm just writting a little bit now. and My full story will be on here soon.
O YEAH I ALSO HAVE MY OWN MYSPACE THAT I MADE FOR FIGHTING AGAINST DEADBEAT DADS.
LOVE AND GOD BLESS,
ALICIA

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Comment by paige on November 10, 2009 at 1:07pm: please google.... deadbeat dads in arrears for over fifty five thousand dollars. my comments were labeled as spam, clueless, and nuts. deadbeat parents have their own supporters. usually the new spouse who most of the time has no idea how they really are.

Comment by paige on November 10, 2009 at 12:40pm: alicia... your a brave young woman. i have heard time and time again on different sites how showing the deadbeat parent for what they are only hurts the child. you are the voice of the child. i have always said that taking things from my childrens hands at the market, or walmart. telling them no, i cant afford the school trip, movies, their friends birthday parties, skating, swimming, the same shoes, or clothes everyone elce is wearing is more painfull than knowing the reason they cannot have those things is because their other parent will not pay their share.... thank you

Comment by Tarah on January 21, 2009 at 3:02pm: I wanted to add something. It's not you...it's your dad. Sometimes when you search for someone there is a reason they aren't there. It's probaly better in some way he wasn't there. It may have hurt you more then you know if he was there. I'm just going by my own experince and I'm a bit older then you.

Comment by Tarah on January 16, 2009 at 8:22am: Alicia,
Glad you found this site. You're story sounds so similiar to mine growing up. (((hugs)))
I'll look for you're story when you post more.
~.~

Comment by Tammy F on January 12, 2009 at 10:55am: Alicia,
I can't imagine the frustration of this situation from the child's perspective. From the parents viewpoint it's painful.
I know how perceptive children are and I am sure it hurt you when you figured out what was going on.
We are here for support.

Thanks

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